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Whether you are a nervous novice contemplating your first experience or an experienced sub please read. You will have safe words for your session unless requested and agreed upon earlier. A safe word is a designated word you say when play starts to becomes too intense, past your boundaries. Once the safe word is said, all play has to stop—and does not resume until I’ve checked why the safe word was said. If something has even the potential to push you too far out of your comfort zone we have a safe word for that. It's necessary whenever you're engaging in play, to make sure before boundaries ever get crossed.
If we are engaging in role play, the word 'stop' might not always mean 'stop.' For instance, your character might say 'stop' or 'oh, that hurts' when you really want to keep going. Having a safe word is a no-frills way to indicate you want to take a break from the scene without any confusion. Use your safe word at any moment you start to feel anxious, you're in pain, you become triggered by something, or just feel too uncomfortable to continue. You are entitled to use it, without judgment or anger, any time during any scene.
A safe word is important for most to feel safe and comfortable. First-time play with a new partner is totally different than with a committed slave who knows Me very well. Safe words are all about communication, to give Me clue’s as to what's going on with the sub in all regards, mentally and physically. As time goes on and when trust is made, some will choose to give Me greater freedom and play without them. That choice is always yours. There’s no reason to be scared of a session, feel like it would become overwhelming, or you would ever engage in something you really do not want to. Boundaries will never be crossed.
Make a list of the your likes, dislikes, and hard limits to share with Me so that I will understand what you are seeking from your session appointment. I know how to take your requests into consideration and still be in control. I also use the information you provide to suggest other things you may find interesting. If you aren’t sure what to include on your list, pay attention to your fantasies: if you fantasize about a certain kink or fetish frequently, you will probably enjoy it in session. Don’t leave anything out just because you are embarrassed or anxious or you wish that you didn’t want to try it. This is your chance to fulfill your fantasies. Don’t think that I'll be shocked by your interests; trust me, I heard it all before.
Realistically evaluate each area of interest. Remember that the types of play may be combined in session, which may increase the sensation.
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